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Raising Princesses, Marrying Queens and Empresses Part 3

Raising Princesses, Marrying Queens and Empresses Part 3

By N Oji Mzilikazi

June 14, 2012

(Originally published in the Montreal Community Contact Volume 22, Number 11)

Be a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the streets
you can’t show your teeth to every guy you meet,
it’s alright to be a little sweet,
but be a model with the kids
and you know what in the sheets

– “No Pain No Gain”
Betty Wright

Women have always been the strength and backbone of the family – most organizations – the society. Women do not shy away from boring or grunt work, if that’s what it takes to put food on the table. Women are known to uproot their life in the cause of love, and to give their all. Women have unbelievable strength, patience and fortitude, not to mention powers to stir the emotions and loins…

 

 

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Raising Princesses, Marrying Queens and Empresses Part 2

Raising Princesses, Marrying Queens and Empresses Part 2

By N Oji Mzilikazi

May 31, 2012

(Originally published in the Montreal Community Contact Volume 22, Number 10))

We are inundated by the smell and image of sex. Television, film, advertisements, magazines, clothing, music and videos invoke and or upraise sexual attractiveness, sexual desirability and idealised bodies. Technology, along with the Internet facilitates the easy capturing and transmission of sexual imagery, sex acts as well as employment as sexual functionaries…